HELP!!!

Totally unrelated pic...just found out all the girlys at Suzicraft are eating Mr's Mops homemade trifle and I'm missing it!!  BOOHOO!!!

Can  any of you lovely bloggers tell me why when people are joining my site its not showing up on my blog???I'm not very  computer literate!!I'm surprised i even worked out how to use blogger just shows how easy it is to use all you folks out there....I'm getting frustrated phone calls off friends and family asking why they  arnt on my site???  is there anyone out there that can help!!!